Validation. Why is it, we all need to be validated? I mean, we need to be reminded by our peers and loved ones on how much we mean to them. Or how well we do, or how good we are at something. Deep down I know what I am made off. I know my talents and I know my limitations. But yet, unless someone reminds me of my good or bad, I feel empty. Funny isn't it?
I heard today that someone said that I was not a very nice guy. That I was a snake. Which kinda led me to writing this. So, despite what I know about myself, and how I conduct my life, there is just no pleasing some people. I guess it would be a lot easier to be labled as a bad guy. Then I won't have to try so hard to please people all the time. Heh. Heh.. Just call me Evil Dude. The new bad boy in town. Ok ok.. need a reality check. So....
Do we really need to be validated? No. But it feels great when one gets some. As long as its good! Hahaha..
:)
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Ah! Must have spoken your mind again! See what you get for being honest?! ;-)
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Don't worry lah! People will think what they will think. And no matter what you do, as long as you can look yourself in the mirror in the morning, it doesn't matter what they think!
Love, compassion...that's all you need! ;-)
some insecurity in life is always good. better than thinking you're the dog's bollocks, no?
csze
Dog's Bollocks...hmmm...
Get licked now and again! Not bad! ;-)
N
Hey there Cze!
I agree babe! I agree...
A snake cuz? That's interesting... Never known you to be one...if that's any consolation.
hugz and kisses from yer cuz in Seattle,
Andrew
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